Let me start out by saying I wholeheartedly believe that what Shai LABeouf did was in now way worthy of him being arrested and being paraded around in the media like some drunken sexual fiend. Now let me the context for that statement. I have spent a good part of my adult life as a ‘secret’ Cabaret performer who does a gender illusion act as a Geisha, not to mention the nearly three years I spent as a cast member of Rocky Horror Picture Show, where I literally spent 4 hours dancing about a stage twice a week in nothing but a corset, stockings and very high heels. Continue Reading
“This is a test of the emergency love system. Please stand by.” Or more precisely that was what it felt like last night, when out of the blue I started emotionally vibrating like a plucked harp string. Continue Reading
Recently I got exposed to a 2014 calendar where nude models dress up as ‘Orthodox’ priests and transformed rituals into steamy scenes between very muscular males. Continue Reading
Casanova’s homeland of Italy is fast losing it’s steamy reputation of being the romantic encounters capital of Europe as Italian men face the challenge of woo’ing their potential partners with all the care and attention they are known for, while being on a ‘budget.’ Continue Reading
In Los Angeles, where every club has a celebrity or two, casual sex is as common to the nightlife as the drunk girls in the corner dancing on the couch. Continue Reading
From the ancient Greeks who made the Rose into their goddess of Love to the Persian who literally got on drunk on it, the Rose has inspired random obsessions the world over making it a perfect specimen to be covered here at Sex, Lies and Obsession. Enjoy! Continue Reading
I proudly welcome as this week’s obsession, Voltaire, the hottest Gothic Rocker on the Web. This obsession randomly begun when I was dragged out by my then-straightish boy friend Zack, to a place called the ‘Hot Monkey Love Cafe’ in San Diego for a night of Gothic Rock Music & Cabaret. Continue Reading
Let’s start with the subject of this weeks obsession – British actress Tilda Swinton. Yes, she does not embody the elements of what today’s Western Society considers beautiful, being lanky with oddly comical facial features, and possessing a fey set of eyes. Continue Reading
Now living alongside the media in a predominately Europeanate society, Hollywood starlets have been manufactured for more than five decades now, their qualities being a necessary mix of theatrical brains and hetero-sex appeal (these days, the latter being much more emphasized, more than ever). Angelica Houston — now a relic of the older very Jewish-American Hollywood hegemony — was deeply immense in both theatrical talent and old school nickelodeon sex appeal. Continue Reading
A seemly endless source of frustration and anger for couples is that fact they expect their partners to know what they are thinking, as if by magic. Well I am here to tell you, no one can read your mind.
If you don’t assume that your boss automatic knows your thoughts on the new proposal at work, then why reckon your lover would know the intimate details of your mind unvoiced?
The solution to this problem is so simple it really shouldn’t need to be spell out. Rather then get upset, share whatever worries or concerns you have at the time. Otherwise your boyfriend really doesn’t have a clue as to what the hell you are talking about.
Unless you open up and express yourself in a clear manner, they will be left sitting there seeing you get pissed off, yet not knowing how to make it better or why you are vexed with them.
Remember even though you may be madly in love with them, you are two individual beings with separate bodies and brains.
Put that body and brain to good use and simply express yourself. You will find the level of stress between you and your lover goes dramatically down because of you using this little trick.